被人誤會時…

Fight against becoming a victim.

You know you’re in the victim mode when a) you feel wronged, b) usually by your friends, c) involving unfair accusations, d) where you can’t get your side of the story fairly told, so that e) the whole thing eats at you day and night, and f) you can’t stop talking about it, so that g) you become consumed with “the issue” until h) you lose your focus completely and i) sometimes say or do foolish things that j) hurt yourself and others and k) permanently damage relationships so that l) you end up miserable and frustrated and m) nothing is solved.

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